To me on 3 May 2027:
Hey,
I just accepted this new job. I start in two weeks and I’m writing to you so you don’t lose yourself.
Every day is spacious. You’re in control.
Our year off was glorious. We woke up without an agenda. We meandered until we found meaning. We did some awesome stuff.
Now, part of our agenda is set by work. You’re in control.
Don’t lose yourself. You’re a father, storyteller, writer, and entertainer. This is who we became and who you are. You get to practice and live this every day. Look for the tiny opportunities to practice your craft. These things show up in every meeting, every interaction, and every cherished moment.
Doing it all is hard, but it makes you happy. You may be tired. That’s ok. Take a short break. You’re building compounding habits. Every word you write is building your compounding machine.
Don’t strive for balance. That’s a fool’s game. Instead, look at the entire picture of who you’re becoming in all areas and choose which you will pursue right now. If you leaned too far on work this week, lean back to your creativity next.
You’re in control of your attention.
Ideally, you’re a better dad, writer, storyteller, worker, and entertainer than I am right now. Put in the time. Make that happen. If you didn’t, that’s okay. Now’s the time to double down. Now’s the time to figure it out. These things make you happy.
Remember, every day is spacious. You’re in control.
Craig
3 May 2026
